I met a young man who has a dual citizenship from Canada and Brazil. we met at the evening of last Saturday May 20th 2017. We talked about three hours in a beautiful night on various questions related to Christianity and some our daily life things.
One question he asked repeatedly is why watching pornography is immoral? Surely, one thing I told him that while we were watching pornography, we were imaging ourselves in the action as well and committed adultery, which breaks the eighth Commandment of God.
I asked him whether he would marry a prostitute in the future under any normal circumstance, he said no. "Why then?" I asked. "It is obvious that if I can, I will choose a better woman to marry as a prostitute will not be good for me as she may sleep with others at her will." "Then, why do you want to commit fornication with your girl friend now if you do not commit to marry her?" "I broke with her. I do not want to marry her now." "but have you made her unclean or unfit for someone else's future wife?" " how do we learn if we do not try?" "learn what? making love? why cannot you learn after marriage? what is more important for you to marry someone? be faithful or be skillful in sex?"
"what do I do when I am high on libido? watching porn is a way to release my drive. instead of doing some other things craze." "there are many ways to release your energy. as you are a rugby player, you know how to exercise to spend your energy. " "Do not be alone at your place . do not stay late at night. call someone to have a chat over phone to change your attention. You can choose to be pure and clean and faithful as you believe in God. pray on your knees and seek his face and advice in your life. "
There were many other things we talked. I recorded these for those young men or girls to know your struggles over sexual drive can be tamed if you set up your mind on the Lord and your inner value.
when humans cannot do, the Lord can do everything for us. For in him, nothing is impossible.
May peace from the Lord Christ Yahoshuwa be upon you all who fear His righteousness and Justice.
Called to serve, Called to stand, called to testify the Truth.