Today, April 12 2015 a Sunday afternoon, I met a very nice gay young man with a descend manner when he felt upset with my religious signs with anti-gay-sex wording. He told me when he was young, he went to Denmark for two years, felt the struggle between two denominations of Christian groups, then they accepted the diversity of understanding and became one happy group. Then he said he went to England and felt so unhappy about the fundamentalists' deeds. They were religious but stole the money for the children education. Then he left to Indian for a couple years. He was completely lost as there are thousands of gods and everything is god in that country. When he came back, he concluded that every religion is same to urge people to be kind, nice to others and with good manner. He did not work out a relationship with his x-girlfriend, and found a man whom he loves has given him much happiness and peace and joy. He is happy to be gay. I shared with him in respect that he could and can choose what kind of lifestyle he wants. Then, I asked him a few questions. "if you step on an ant, and kill it, will you cry?" He answered with a little puzzel, "certainly not." "Why?" "because it has a little value to me." "Surely, I agree. however, if tomorrow you die, if you continue sinning tonight, in our Creator's eyes, you are like that ant." "I do not mind to be like an ant. " "but, let me finish. The Creator will tell you that he wished and wanted me to one of His princes." he appeared to be shocked a little bit on what if the Creator does exist or what if the Real G-d truly wants him to be his prince.
He continued to protest how happy he is to be gay with his girl friend. He asked why G-d could be angry if He made him gay and he is happy. I interrupted him and asked, "do you know that you were created by a sperm meeting an egg?" "yes." "Do you know your sperms carrying your very genetic codes that says whom you truly are ?" "yes. But only one of millions of them succeeded." "But that one carried your very genetic codes." "If I do not have sex, they will die inside of me." " It was created in such a way. so let it be that way. You actually can be asexual. " "Surely, if I choose to be. But are we made to enjoy sex?" " Yes. So your parents enjoy such intimacy under a scared marriage." "every marriage is sacred." "are you sure? how about gay marriage?" "If two loves each other, they can marriage as heterosexual couple." "Pause a second. there are huge difference. " " what difference?" " "When you have gay sex with your male partner, you entered a place of poo, which is dirty and unclean." "Virgina was made for scared sexual intercourse, which is complete different from your hole." He could not stop laughing as he protested, "I felt great." "wait. secondly, you shot your sperms that carry your very genetic codes into a pool. That is a disgrace. what you do is like to crack a precious crystal ball, once, twice, trice, and more. Do you think that the owner would be very mad about such behavior? " "Our body produces millions of sperms. If I shit them out to the poo or, they die inside of me, what is the difference? Why cannot I enjoy what makes me happy?" "No one says you cannot choose what you like to do. I am here to share with you, G-d hates such immoral sexual conducts. You remember that two cities of immoral sexual people died from the fire coming down from the heaven." "Sodom and Gomorrah." "yes. G-d hates sins but loves sinners. if we do not repent, he will destroy us. Now, he has reserved a Day for Judgement. I do not judge you nor stop you doing what you like. but He sent me to share His love with you. You must choose to stop having gay sex or not if you want to go to His Kingdom of Heaven. " "I am a nice guy. I try to help others and make others happy. I do mind where I will go when I die. If he likes me, I go to Heaven. If not, I go to hell. " " Wait a second. It is not whether he likes you or not, but whether you will choose to follow him or not. or repent your sins not. " "Repent my sin. It cannot be...." He turned his eyes away as he could not think a future that he will have a day or life without much enjoyed gay sex. I told him,"Now you know, there are two ways before you. You need to choose. You have a free will to choose. Choice means consequence. Be wise. "
later on, there were some other people joined the conversation and this Victoria young gay man said goodbye and took off.
I had to say that he was the first young gay man who has an open heart and mutual respect manner when we talked. I met a lot of young gay people on the street. They flipped their middle fingers towards me, they spat towards me, they spilled out hateful words by calling me various dirty titles. some of them even shouted or yelled in front of the public. I believed that he also felt my mutual respect towards him during our conversations. There never be any discrimination, hateful words, or disrespectful words or gestures. Yes, this was what our G-d intends us to have a fair discussion and sharing. even his message through my mouth will be lost in this young gay man's life, least as I told him, "I have shared His good message with you. that he loves sinners but hates sins."
May the Lord awake his soul and lead him back to the Christian journal once again. Amen.
Called to serve, Called to stand, called to testify the Truth.